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If the both of you are HIV negative and struggle with consistent condom use, maybe consider taking PrEP to stay safe. If the both of you prefer to use condoms, once the bottom feels ready, put a condom over that cock, lube up, and slowly slide inside and enjoy all the amazing sensations that will ensue. Good communication will make the whole experience much more pleasurable for both of you. Ease into it with lots of foreplay, lube and fingering, making sure the bottom is comfortable. The only way to find out is to try it for yourself.
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How do I know my role?Īnal sex isn’t something that is black and white – what it all comes down to is what you and your sex partner feel comfortable with and what you want to try. Some guys have a strong preference, others find their role depends on the guy they are going to have sex with, and very often a guy’s preferences will change over time. Both positions can be a lot of fun, although guys tend to have preferences of whether they want to be a top, bottom, or both when having sex. We all know what is meant by ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ when it comes to getting with another guy. Let us know what you think of his piece in the comments below. Here's the first blog from our new Auckland based contributor Jonathan Allen.